Leadership has taken on a new meaning and greater challenges in the last decade. Influencing is a critical skill in today's environment, in which you must work with so many people to do your job. No longer can you order things to be done; no longer are problems so simple that everyone agrees on one solution.
Looking into the rest of the decade, it appears that leaders in business and industry will continue to encounter situations that will demand increasingly sophisticated skills to get others to endorse their initiatives. Influencing skills, then, will continue to be critical management assets.
The following are suggestions for developing the following skill areas:
Increasing Your leadership Impact:
The ability to command the attention of others is necessary for effective leadership. If you suspect that your impact is low, there are several things you can do.
- when you meet with individuals and groups, stand up quickly and introduce yourself, if necessary.
- With employees, be firm and direct when stating expectations or confronting poor performance. Don't dilute your comments with phrases such as "..don't you think?", "it seems to me...," "maybe I'm wrong, but...," you can be firm and direct without being abrasive or disrespectfull.
- If you are uncomfortable stating your point of view directly, consider enrolling in an assertiveness training course to build your skills and develop your confidence in presenting your opinions more forcefully.
- Pay attention to your vocal qualities when giving direction or feedback to others. If you tend to be soft-spoken, work on delivering your message in a more forceful and confident tone.
Improving leadership through Feedback:
Most managers do not have clear perceptions of their leadership style and their impact on others. Some feedback can be gained through observing others' reactions and through the feedback others provide in formal and informal settings. In-depth feedback is often helpful, yet others may be hesitant to provide it unless you actively solicit it.
Becoming More Assertive:
people who lack assertiveness skills are often overlooked, and thus have trouble getting their ideas accepted. The ability to present your point of view without offending others, even if you believe that others will disagree, is critical if you want to have an impact on your staff and on the organization.
Giving Compelling Reasons for ideas:
People are persuaded by different things. some people are impressed by a strong, logical argument, while others are swayed by a forceful, impassioned by explanations. to be most compelling, adapt your persuasive style to suit your audience.
Winning Support from Others:
gaining support from others is a skill that takes time and practice to hone. Good ideas are often not enough to get others to accept your point of view.
Negotiating Persuasively:
Effective negotiation depends on a number of factors: preparation, knowledge of the other person's position and needs, and creativity in coming up with alternative solutions, to name just a few. One key to becoming a persuasive negotiator is to clearly specify how your objectives will benefit the other party or parties involved.
Getting Others to Take Action:
There are many ways to compel others to take action, but the most effective strategies result in people willingly and eagerly acting on your initiatives. If you find that you consistently have a hard time getting others to get moving, consider the following:
- Show your enthusiasm.
- State positive expectations.
- Provide rewards.
Commanding attention and Respect in Groups:
Group situations are an excellent opportunity for you to demonstrate your leadership qualities and to have an impact on a large number of people.
Influencing the decisions of upper Management:
One of the most important areas in which to focus your influencing efforts is upper management. getting the attention of your manager and his or her peers and other higher-level managers is a critical skill.